It’s okay to ask for a second opinion or choose a different team if you want to. Second opinions are not uncommon.
You can ask for one even if you are satisfied with the care you’re receiving.
A second opinion can reassure you that the treatment plan your team recommends is the best one for you. This can help you to decide:
It is okay to get a second opinion. You are not being disrespectful or disloyal to your doctor, you are just checking things out. Your doctor would do the same.
Ask your GP or medical oncologist to refer you to someone suitable. Ask to see someone who specialises in breast cancer. Most medical oncologists are happy to give referrals.
Note that sometimes it can take a few weeks to get an appointment with a specialist for a second opinion.
Ask your current medical oncologist for a referral for a second opinion. You may feel uncomfortable, but they are probably the best person. They know you and can suggest someone suitable for you.
To help with the conversation:
If you don’t want to ask your medical oncologist, you can ask your GP or the health professional who gave you the original referral instead. Be honest about your needs to help your GP refer you to a medical oncologist more suited to you.
We have a list of questions about choosing a medical oncologist on Your treatment and care team. Some of these may be reasons you ask for a second opinion.
It is important to take as much information as you can to the appointment with the new oncologist. This helps the new oncologist review your case properly.
Spend some time gathering your history and treatment records, including:
If you decide the new oncologist better meets your needs, they can arrange for you to move over to their care.
Talk to your medical oncologist or GP if you would like a referral for a second opinion about the treatment or care recommended.
Gather your treatment records before your second opinion appointment with a new oncologist.