When you are diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer, it is normal to wonder how quickly the cancer might progress and what your life expectancy might be. This is known as ‘prognosis’ – the likely outcome or course of the disease.
One of the first things people often ask when they find out their breast cancer has spread is ‘How long do I have to live?’.
A prognosis in metastatic breast cancer varies widely.
Some people want to know, others do not. This is your choice. You don’t have to discuss your prognosis with your doctors or anyone else if you don't want to.
It is very common for people with metastatic breast cancer to be afraid of their prognosis. They believe their lifespan will be very short.
Although metastatic breast cancer is currently incurable, it is often very treatable. Many treatments are available now, which is why people are living longer. As new treatments become available, the average survival time is improving.
Most people live well for many years and often remain continually on treatment. They change drugs when their disease progresses, or side effects are too much to tolerate.
A diagnosis of metastatic breast cancer is not the end of the road, it is the start of a new journey. Some days you will be filled with fear and uncertainty, this is to be expected.
What one person wants to know about their prognosis may be different from another.
Some people simply want to know if they will be able to book an overseas holiday, reach a certain life goal or attend an important event.
Before you ask, you need to consider the impact of receiving this information.
It’s also ok to tell your doctor you don’t currently want information about your prognosis. Some people prefer not to speak about it at all. Others prefer their oncologist discusses it with family members instead.
It’s important to remember that people and cancers are all different. Some subtypes of breast cancer have a better prognosis than others. This makes it impossible to predict life expectancy.
Many different factors affect survival times for people with metastatic breast cancer, including:
It has taken me a while to get an understanding of the implications of my diagnosis. But I know that every case is different and there are many treatment options.
When you are ready, talk to your medical oncologist. They know your subtype of breast cancer and how your disease is likely to progress.
Sometimes, it's better for doctors to talk about survival times as a range of scenarios. They may be able to give you ‘best case’, ‘most likely’ and ‘worst case’ scenarios, based on your individual situation.
If you choose to ask about the prognosis, it's important to remember this is only an estimate.
You may want to talk to someone about your diagnosis or about the prognosis. Or you may need advice to help you decide how much you want to know.
Ask your treating team for a referral to a psychologist who specialises in cancer, so you can talk about your concerns and fears.
Our Helpline is also here to connect you with information and support. For other ways to find support, read Psychology and counselling support.
My psychologist advocates to learn to ‘live in the moment’ which has helped me to enjoy what each new day brings instead of living in fear of what might be taken from me in the future.
Clinical trials often show the average 'progression-free survival' and 'overall survival' of people who try a new treatment or treatment combination.
However, clinical trial participants are often fitter and healthier than the wider population. The trial may not be an accurate assessment in a 'real world' population.
We encourage you and your family to talk to your treating team about clinical trials, so you can be reassured that you can do well with treatment.
Statements about prognosis at the time of diagnosis are not helpful in the beginning. How long is a piece of string – everyone is so variable.
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