Your treating team will consider many things before they recommend treatment options for you.
In most cases, you don’t need to rush your decision. It’s generally okay to take some time to think about the options. Take time to understand the treatment and how it may affect you and your family. Taking this time does not usually affect the outcome of your treatment.
It’s important to remember:
Your breast cancer pathology report helps your team decide which treatments to recommend for you and in what order.
Factors that affect the most appropriate type of treatment for breast cancer include:
Breast cancer treatment is different for each person. There is a lot of information available about the options and it can be difficult to know what is relevant to you. To help, we recommend you:
Everyone’s need for information is different and it’s up to you to decide how much you want to know ahead of time. If you prefer not to read about breast cancer yourself, ask a family member or friend to research for you and come to your appointments.
This can help you feel prepared for any decisions you might need to make. It also helps you think of questions you want to ask your doctors. Write them down so you don't forget. This is easier than trying to think of everything when you are in the appointment. If you do want to know more about the options for breast cancer, read Treatments for early breast cancer or Treatments for DCIS.
Ask questions about anything you need, so you can make decisions that are right for you. This is important if you:
Many people find it helpful to write down questions to take to their next appointment. You can also ask for a second opinion if you are not finding the answers you need.
I read a lot about breast cancer before I saw the oncologist. I felt I understood the main issues and was more able to participate in making decisions about my treatment with my doctor.
It’s important to take the time you need to make the decisions that are right for you. You may need to plan practical things such as childcare, work and finances. Taking a week or two to make a decision will not usually affect the outcome of your treatment.
The costs of breast cancer treatment can add up, even if you have private health insurance. Find out what different treatments cost before you decide. Resources to help are:
In the Online Network, you’ll find people with a good understanding of what you’re going through. They can share their experiences of what you might need to know and what decisions you might be asked to make at appointments.
The doctor asked me if I had any questions. I knew I should have some, but for the life of me I just couldn’t think – it was all so overwhelming.
Sometimes, you may feel overwhelmed by how much information you need to take in and the number of decisions to be made. It does become easier as you start to understand the terminology and how the health system works.
As well as connecting with people in the Online Network, you can reach out to BCNA’s Helpline. The team is available on 1800 500 258 between 9.00am and 5.00pm AEST Monday to Friday.
When I was first diagnosed, I was too shocked and frightened to want to read the books I was given. However, in the next couple of months I became keen to read whatever was available.