Being diagnosed with breast cancer can be overwhelming. It’s normal to experience a wide range of emotions when you are told you have breast cancer. Many people find that when they understand their diagnosis and know what treatment they’ll be having, they are able to put strategies in place to help them manage the physical, emotional and practical issues that breast cancer brings.
If you have been recently diagnosed with breast cancer, it may come as a terrible shock. It can be difficult to know where to begin. It's important to take time to understand what your diagnosis means for you, ask questions and talk through the treatment options and the support available to you and your family.
On this page, you will find a collection of information and resources that can help you through the first few weeks and months after a breast cancer diagnosis. Learn more about types of breast cancer, your diagnosis, tests, treatment options and the support available.
Breast Cancer Network Australia (BCNA) is here to help you.
Learn more about the types of breast cancer – both non-invasive and invasive – and how best you can manage in the weeks following a diagnosis.
Ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS) and lobular carcinoma in situ (LCIS) are types of non-invasive breast cancer. You might feel confused about what DCIS and LCIS are, and why – even though they are not considered invasive breast cancers – they are treated in a similar way.
The following collection of resources has been designed for people who have been diagnosed with DCIS and LCIS.
Early breast cancer refers to cancer that is contained within the breast and may have spread to surrounding lymph nodes in the breast or armpit (axilla) but not anywhere else in the body. A diagnosis of early breast cancer can be distressing. You may feel anxious about what this means for you.
The following collection of resources has been designed for people who have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer.
Metastatic breast cancer is breast cancer that has spread beyond the breast to more distant parts of the body. It is sometimes called “advanced” breast cancer, “secondary” breast cancer or stage IV (4) breast cancer. Being diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer can come as a devastating blow, and the first few weeks and months after a diagnosis can be overwhelming. However, although metastatic breast cancer is not currently curable, it is treatable. For some people the cancer can be controlled for years.
You may experience many different emotions, and you will almost certainly find yourself worrying about what lies ahead, both for you and your family and friends. It's important to take time to understand what your diagnosis means for you, ask questions and talk through the treatment options and support available to you and your family.
On this page you will find a collection of information and resources that can help you find your way through the first few weeks and months after a metastatic breast cancer diagnosis.
Based on the experience of the BCNA network of Australians affected by breast cancer, we have developed resources to help you feel informed, connected and supported.
These are some of the things we are often asked by people when going through breast cancer experience, especially just after diagnosis.
Ask questions – asking questions will help you understand what treatments are recommended for you. Before you go to an appointment, write a list of questions you want to ask, putting your most important ones at the top in case you don’t get time to ask them all.
Find a medical team that will work for you and with you – You have an important association with your medical specialists so find a treating team you can trust and who make you feel cared for. Ask for second opinions if you think you need them. Ask how you can see a breast care nurse for support if you are not introduced to one.
Understand the out-of-pocket costs involved – Your treatment will extend over a period of time so costs can add up, especially if you’re being treated in the private health system. It’s important to know up front what the out-of-pocket costs of your tests and treatment are likely to be. Talk to your doctor/s and, if you have one, your private health insurer, before you make a final decision about your treatment. You can ask for a second opinion on costs if you need to.
Take your time – Most decisions about your treatment don’t need to be made in a great hurry so don’t allow yourself to be rushed. Taking time to ask questions if there are things you don’t understand or talking over the decisions you need to make with your family won’t affect the outcome of your treatment. It can, however, make a big difference to how prepared and in control you feel.
Keep records – If you can, take a trusted family member or friend to your doctors’ appointments to help record and keep track of the information you receive. Take notes, or ask your family member/friend to, so you can refer to the information later.
Keeping a record of your bills and any Medicare or private health fund rebates you receive will help you stay on top of your expenses. Store your medical or financial records in one secure place.
Find trustworthy information – BCNA recommends the following websites as reliable and safe places to find information about breast cancer:
For further information read BCNA’s factsheet Getting the most from the web: A guide to breast cancer information from the internet.
What type of breast cancer do I have? Is my cancer curable?
What are the treatments options available to me?
How long will the treatments go for?
What is going to happen next?
Will I need genetic testing – will my loved ones get cancer?
Who are the members of my treating team?
Who will be my main contact person?
Will I have access to a breast care nurse?
Is it possible to get a second opinion? (if you feel you would like one)
Will I have to pay for treatment?
Can you tell me what my out-of-pocket costs are likely to be?
Can I have treatment in a public hospital so I don’t have to pay, or can I access any financial assistance programs?
The treatment offered to you by your specialist will be determined by many factors. This includes your general health, the subtype of breast cancer you have and if you have had any previous treatments. Clinical trials are a way of accessing new treatments that have not yet been accepted as standard treatments. Each trial has very specific criteria to participate. Speak to your specialist about whether there is a current clinical trial that may be of benefit to you.
Telling friends and family that you have breast cancer is not easy. As well as your own emotions, you have their reactions to deal with. You may find it hard to answer their questions.
Talking openly and honestly is usually the best way to keep any relationship healthy. Expressing your fears and discussing your needs as an individual and as a couple or family will be helpful. Discussing cancer with children, and how they react and cope, will be influenced by their age and maturity.
Talking to a member of your treating team can be helpful to identify strategies to help telling family, friends and work colleagues about your breast cancer diagnosis.
Dealing with everyday life can feel overwhelming after a breast cancer diagnosis. From how you manage your finances, through to employment and what to do about childcare, there’s a lot to think about and organise during an already difficult time. Some questions you might like to ask a member of your treating team include:
Is there someone I can talk to for emotional support?
What support is available for my family?
Who can I speak if I have questions around work, childcare or financial concerns and the support available to me?
Can you help me connect with other people who have breast cancer?
You can also contact: